Dianne Oxberry died 10 days after she was instructed she had most cancers… now her husband shares her story

Simply over a 12 months in the past, BBC presenter Dianne Oxberry took half in a charity stroll for Youngsters In Want, known as ‘Plod for Pudsey’.

She walked ten miles in a loop alongside the North-West coast, from Blackpool to Fleetwood, smiling and laughing with well-wishers and schoolchildren alongside the best way. Two days later she did one other ten-mile stint, across the Wirral.

Everybody knew Dianne. Her fairly face had been welcomed into houses within the area for twenty-four years, because the resident meteorologist (or ‘climate lady’ — Dianne did not actually care both approach) for BBC North West. She appeared wholesome and glad, knowledgeable doing her bit for her neighborhood.

Eight weeks later she was useless, aged 51, simply ten days after being recognized with an aggressive type of ovarian most cancers.

Dianne Oxberry (pictured) died aged 51, just ten days after being diagnosed with an aggressive form of ovarian cancer

Dianne Oxberry (pictured) died aged 51, simply ten days after being recognized with an aggressive type of ovarian most cancers

There had been no warning, no time to make plans. Instantly Dianne was gone.

Understandably, the ache and shock remains to be seen within the eyes of her grieving husband, Ian Hindle.

‘Not a day goes by after I do not take into consideration her, miss her or, very often, cry eager about her,’ admits the 57-year-old cameraman, father of their two younger youngsters. ‘I miss her sense of humour, her love. She was a superb spouse and mom and I miss all of the issues we did collectively.

‘Anniversaries have been an actual wrestle. Christmas, which introduced again all of the recollections from final 12 months, was actually arduous. You already know you need to face it and getting by it’s simply one other step ahead.

‘However I miss her not being there for these key moments — when the youngsters have accomplished one thing wonderful and I believe: ‘Oh, I might have phoned her as much as say one thing about it.’ Or while you’re having a nasty day and need to discuss to your pal, your accomplice, and you may’t as a result of she’s gone.’

Dianne’s heat, pure presenting fashion made her a vastly in style broadcaster on each tv and radio. Though she had labored alongside stars comparable to Radio 1’s Simon Mayo and Steve Wright, she was greatest generally known as simply Dianne, who instructed the North West when to get the barbecue out of the storage on the weekend.

Understandably, the pain and shock is still visible in the eyes of her grieving husband, Ian Hindle. The couple are pictured on their wedding day

Understandably, the ache and shock remains to be seen within the eyes of her grieving husband, Ian Hindle. The couple are pictured on their wedding ceremony day 

Native boy and comic Peter Kay as soon as gatecrashed her climate report, getting down on his knees to say: ‘Dianne Oxberry… God love her… you have made it sunshine for everyone.’

When she died in January 2019, her loss of life left a gaping gap in her household’s lives.

‘The pace of the illness was so stunning for all of us,’ says Ian. ‘At first, it wasn’t as if she was so desperately sick that we thought she was going to die. However it’s a cliché to suppose most cancers takes a very long time. Typically it does and generally it would not.’

The couple, whose household house is in south Manchester, met in 1991 when Dianne began engaged on a Saturday-morning TV present, The 8.15 From Manchester.

‘She was very quick-witted and would at all times be capable of say one thing humorous,’ says Ian. ‘The day we first met, I used to be miming on stage to a pop tune, so the opposite cameramen might rehearse getting the best shot. Dianne got here in, noticed me and she or he instructed me later that was the second she thought, ‘Yep, he is the one’.’

They married in 1993 and Dianne set to work making their dream house. ‘She put me to disgrace when it got here to DIY,’ says Ian. ‘She fitted the kitchen, she would lay flooring — a neighbour remembers popping spherical someday and discovering her on her personal, attempting to get a big wardrobe down the steps.’

'Not a day goes by when I don't think about her, miss her or, quite often, cry thinking about her,' admits the 57-year-old cameraman, father of their two young children

‘Not a day goes by after I do not take into consideration her, miss her or, very often, cry eager about her,’ admits the 57-year-old cameraman, father of their two younger youngsters

Fifteen years later, their two youngsters had been born. Ian has by no means revealed their names or ages in any interview and needs them to stay nameless.

‘Dianne was very protecting of their privateness,’ he says. ‘Whereas the outpouring of public grief in response to Dianne’s loss of life was wonderful and gave me consolation, it will be overwhelming for the kids to cope with.

‘Not many individuals’s mums have public memorials held at Manchester Cathedral.

‘She was a incredible mum. I spent a good period of time away from house due to work however she simply obtained on with it. She had youngsters, a horse, canines — I can not think about how she managed to deal with all of them and do a job. However she did.

‘She was extremely wholesome, which is why this got here out of the blue for us all. There isn’t any historical past of ovarian most cancers in her household. That November she’d had a little bit of stomach ache and mentioned she felt drained, however that was all.

‘Her GP thought it might be irritable bowel syndrome. She had a scan they usually thought she might need an ovarian cyst however there wasn’t any panic.

‘But that is a part of the issue. Ovarian most cancers is named ‘the silent killer’ however in truth it ‘whispers’. There are signs comparable to bloating, lack of urge for food, stomach ache and tiredness which collectively might level in direction of it.

The news that she had stage 3 ovarian cancer arrived on New Year's Eve 2018 ¿ a Monday ¿ and she was transferred to Manchester's Christie Hospital

The information that she had stage 3 ovarian most cancers arrived on New Yr’s Eve 2018 — a Monday — and she or he was transferred to Manchester’s Christie Hospital

‘Ladies must be conscious and ask for a blood take a look at, which might be essential for an early analysis.’ On December 11, Dianne requested to go to A&E as a result of she was in a lot ache. After checks, she underwent a full hysterectomy and tissue was despatched off for biopsies.

The information that she had stage 3 ovarian most cancers arrived on New Yr’s Eve 2018 — a Monday — and she or he was transferred to Manchester’s Christie Hospital.

‘When the advisor got here in with a Macmillan nurse and delivered the dangerous information, it was horrific,’ Ian says. ‘At that time the medical doctors had been speaking about treating her with chemotherapy, however very quickly they realised there have been too many problems.


Ovarian most cancers is likely one of the commonest cancers in girls, with virtually 7,500 new instances a 12 months within the UK. And with 4,100 deaths a 12 months — 11 a day — it’s the deadliest gynaecological most cancers.

It’s known as ‘the silent killer’ as a result of its signs can simply be mistaken for these of much less severe situations comparable to irritable bowel syndrome, particularly within the early phases. Because of this, two thirds of instances will not be picked up till the most cancers has unfold across the physique, when it is vitally arduous to deal with.

But whether it is detected within the earliest stage, greater than 90 per cent of girls survive for 5 years or extra.

The most typical signs to look at for are bloating that does not come and go, pelvic or stomach ache most days, feeling full rapidly when consuming or lack of urge for food, and needing the bathroom ceaselessly.

Others signs embody indigestion and nausea, a change in bowel habits, again ache, vaginal bleeding, lethargy and weight reduction.

But a latest ballot discovered a couple of girl in 5 mistakenly suppose smear checks, which display for cervical most cancers, additionally choose up ovarian most cancers. Some consultants suppose this implies girls are ignoring signs as a result of they assume there may be nothing to fret about.

The charity Goal Ovarian Most cancers advises girls to see their GP in the event that they really feel continuously bloated and produce other signs that do not go away, particularly if they’re over 50 or have a household historical past of ovarian or breast most cancers (as this could increase the chance of the illness).


‘Dianne mentioned to me just some days after the analysis, ‘I do not know if I’ll pull by this’ and I mentioned, ‘No, in fact you might be’. However I believe we each simply had a sense.’

Inside six days, consultants had been getting ready Ian for the worst.

‘On the Monday, they mentioned she would go away that evening, but the day earlier than she’d been sitting up and speaking to individuals who came over,’ he says.

‘I stayed together with her and talked to her, even when she could not reply as a result of she was so closely medicated. We spoke in regards to the speaking books she’d been listening to, the kids and the on a regular basis practicalities of life.

‘Associates stored visiting. She was surrounded by love. When she died 4 days later, I used to be together with her.’

He pauses. Tears fill his eyes.

Conserving the kids knowledgeable was important. Ian says: ‘Just some days earlier than her loss of life they went to see her, to speak to her and maintain her hand.

‘It was at that time that we needed to be truthful with them. She died on January 10 and coming house and telling the kids was indescribably traumatic, although a 12 months on they’re doing okay. They’ve been going to a beautiful charity known as As soon as Upon A Smile, which has actually helped them by their trauma.

‘Typically now we’ll be watching TV and Dianne’s face will pop up on display and the kids wish to see that. I nonetheless discover it emotional however they will say, ‘We need to see footage of Mummy’ or, ‘Let’s take a look at Mummy’, so we try this collectively.’

One shocking consolation for the household has been the outpouring of affection from throughout the nation.

‘Once I awoke the day after she’d died and the information broke, I had texts from individuals from throughout saying how a lot she meant to them,’ says Ian. ‘Peter Kay and different celebrities despatched playing cards.’

As individuals began asking the place to ship donations, Ian arrange a set, hoping he would be capable of donate £5,000 to charity. However the pot had reached £20,000 in hours — and the thought to create a charity, The Dianne Oxberrry Belief, was born.

‘Cash was coming in and we thought perhaps we might do some good,’ says Ian. ‘It was certainly one of Dianne’s broadcasting colleagues, Eamonn O’Neal, who gave us the thought of beginning up a charity. We launched it formally in Could final 12 months on World Ovarian Most cancers Day and donations have come pouring in.’

The Belief goals to lift consciousness among the many public and medical professionals of the indicators and signs of the illness, which kills greater than 4,000 girls a 12 months within the UK. Already it has donated greater than £40,000 to a analysis crew at Oxford College, in addition to £15,000 to As soon as Upon A Smile.

A programme about Dianne’s story and different girls’s experiences of ovarian most cancers aired final evening, and Ian has taken half although he nonetheless finds it a wrestle to speak about his loss.

‘Somebody instructed me after Dianne died that I simply needed to get by the subsequent hour, then the subsequent day, and that is all I have been doing,’ he says.’I can not consider plans for the long run. I am now a single father or mother, so my precedence is my youngsters.

‘It is arduous to consider the locations and instances we had been collectively as a household with out changing into overwhelmed. However I will at all times suppose, ‘What would Dianne say?’ and generally I can nonetheless hear her voice saying: ‘Simply get on with it, simply do it.’ So that is what I’ve to do.’

The Silent Killer? is on BBC iPlayer and airs once more on the BBC Information Channel at 9.30pm on Friday, February 14.


Conserving match may be powerful as we age. Right here, STEPHEN KIRK, a physiotherapist at One Wellness in Harrogate, selects 5 of the most effective bits of train equipment with older individuals in thoughts.


Bosu house steadiness coach, £123.88, newitts.com

An inflated rubber dome on a flat base, this can be utilized to enhance steadiness. Strolling, jogging or standing on one leg on the dome will strengthen leg muscle groups that maintain us steady. Weight-bearing workout routines like this assist maintain bones stronger, too.


Energy-web senior hand exerciser, £37.99, healthandcare.co.uk

A hoop the dimensions of a big plate with a rubbery, net-like protecting, this provides resistance coaching to strengthen the muscle groups within the hand and forearm, and keep dexterity. Maintain it with one hand and push the fingers of the opposite by the netting and pull again. Use till you are feeling barely fatigued and construct up slowly (there are six resistance ranges).


MagneTrainer ER, £147, amazon.co.uk

This set of pedals can be utilized whereas sitting in a chair, making it appropriate for individuals with mobility points who need to strengthen their legs and arms. Safe the toes (or arms) on the pedals and rotate. It will possibly enhance leg energy, significantly the quadriceps (the massive muscle groups on the entrance of the thighs) and hamstrings, necessary for strolling and climbing stairs. Elevating the center fee can even enhance cardiovascular health.


Dwelling train pulley system, £20.99, welcomemobility.co.uk

This pulley system, which inserts over a family door, improves flexibility by exercising the shoulders. Modify the pulley rope to the specified size and pull down on one or each handles till you are feeling a little bit of a pull in your arms. Older individuals usually wrestle to raise their arms above their shoulders as a result of the rotator cuff muscle groups — important for stabilising the shoulder joint — can tear. Utilizing the pulley may help alleviate muscle weak spot brought on by damage or stroke.


Pleny indoor mini health trampoline, £66, amazon.co.uk

This small trampoline with an adjustable handrail can be utilized indoors to burn energy and enhance steadiness. 5 to 10 minutes of bouncing or working will assist as you need to modify your steadiness when touchdown. It can additionally construct up muscle groups however with much less impression on joints than a tough floor.


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